When problems are piling up and you feel like you are deep in a negative spiral a positive attitude can not only lift you up but it can lift up your whole team.
It can be difficult to find the positive in a negative situation but it is essential to overcoming any problem.
The more we focus on the negative the more we shut ourselves off to the potential solutions to the problem. It is hard to see the possibilities under a pile of garbage.
So how do you regain your positive attitude when things are going wrong?
First, start with a concern for other people. When we take the focus off ourselves, and our own problems, and look for ways to help others it helps put a new spin on the problem. It forces us to step outside ourselves and see a larger reality.
When we focus on others we see the problem through their eyes which will cause us to gain a new perspective on the issue.
It also changes our attitude from one of self-pity to one of service. This can be empowering. When we realize we have the power to make our little world better and improve the situation of other people, we quit feeling pity for ourselves and start acting in a positive manner.
Helping other people also fills us with positive feelings. When we have a positive impact on others their gratitude fills us with gratitude. It may be cliché but you get what you give.
For more on this see – The People Connections – Making for a Happy Workplace.
Second, practice gratitude. No matter how bad things are you always have something to be grateful for no matter how small.
Make a list – either write it down or mentally. Identify at least five things that you are grateful for. Focus on how those good things make you feel. Think about what life would be like without those things.
Gratitude can fuel a soul at the worst of times and empower us to see the world through a more positive lens.
Third, think back to another difficult situation or problem you have faced in the past. Realize that no matter what the problem you have faced similar situations in the past before and survived.
Focus on the temporary nature of problems. This will help you to see the light at the end of the tunnel.
Consider what you did to overcome past problems and how you felt once they were overcome. Stay focused on the positive outcomes.
Like anything in life, good things come when we put in the effort and the work. Regaining a positive attitude when things are going wrong isn’t easy. It is much simpler to wallow in our own misery and wait for the situation to clear. The only problem is by doing that the outcome will not be good.
Instead, make the effort to change your attitude. To focus on the good. Focus on others. Be grateful. And remember, you have been here before and survived.